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Self-love is not selfish

You don’t have to display your affection for yourself. It’s an essence that you can sense every day. It’s not about bragging or bragging about how brilliant you are when it comes to loving oneself.

Self-Love Is Not Selfish
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Self-love is not selfish, it’s essential for oneself. Being selfish is much different from loving oneself; in fact, loving oneself is the only way we have any hope of giving or loving another. Self-love means to be yourself to accept yourself the way you are not what society wants you to be. Self-love is something when you accept yourself flaws mistakes and imperfections and try to be better you by treating yourself good  

Self-love is not selfish; it is taking care of yourself and putting your happiness at the top of your priorities. It’s necessary self-love doesn’t mean that everyone will treat you the way you should be treated but you won’t let them change the way you see yourself, nor u will stick around them to destroy you.

Self-Love Is Not Selfish
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 Need for Self-love 

When you learn how to build a positive and loving relationship with yourself, you cultivate an enhanced sense of self, that not only benefits you but also the loved ones around you. Sometimes… giving a reminder to yourself that taking out time for yourself is not selfish but necessary. 

Self-love is not something you show. It is an essence you feel every day. Loving yourself is not about showing off or telling people about how smart are you. Loving yourself is the powerful inner feeling of happiness that comes with comfort feeling at peace with yourself. 

A feeling of self-love can be very empowering. It saves you from worrying about your looks, your thoughts, and your feelings. It’s relieving and keeps bad vibes out of your mind. Loving yourself enables you to alleviate anxiety in relation to self-esteem, which is a significant factor in depression. Self-love requires balance. Excessive confidence in self is an example of many self-lady pitfalls to avoid.

4 Reasons that self love is not selfish
  • Self-love helps you to archive your goals and can be an inspiration for others.
  • Self-love helps you to be oneself with which you will have a life full of happiness.
  • When you start respecting yourself, then eventually you will respect others.
  • Self-love helps to get rid of bad vibes and helps you to build a positive attitude around you.  
How to love yourself 
  • Accept your mistakes 
  • Give time to yourself 
  • Learn to say no to things you don’t like 
  • Don’t be afraid to be yourself 
  • Do things which make you happy 
  • Trust in yourself  
  • Know you’re worth it 
  • Keep yourself physically and mentally fit 
  • Surround yourself with good vibes 

Love the way you are, society will judge you but you have the potential to do something always have faith and love for yourself because when you will have the faith in yourself then you can prove to the people who you are. 


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Written By

Shivangi Jhamb is a News Analyst and Author at She is currently in 3rd year pursuing a BA-Journalism and Mass Communication from Manav Rachna International Institute of Research and Studies.



  1. Anshul Khatri

    January 16, 2022 at 4:32 pm


    • Shivangi Jhamb

      January 16, 2022 at 5:02 pm

      Thank you😀

  2. Vatsla Sharma

    January 16, 2022 at 4:39 pm

    Great article!!
    Good job!!

    • Shivangi Jhamb

      January 16, 2022 at 5:02 pm

      Thank you ❤️

  3. Shruti

    January 16, 2022 at 5:32 pm

    great work!

    • Shivangi Jhamb

      January 16, 2022 at 5:34 pm

      Thank you ❤️

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